You're not an asshole. You are, however, scatterbrained and easily distracted. ;) I know some of your mannerisms come across as bragging or as being very self-centered - this is what others have told me, not my view, so I couldn't be as clear as perhaps I ought in regards to that.
If anything you could stand to learn to step back from the shinies and evaluate how other people are reacting & feeling, take those factors into consideration. You're never deliberately mean or thoughtless, all your friends know this, but putting a little more thought into how your words & actions affect others would not be undue. IMHO. Any personal improvement you should choose to embark upon should be due to your own evaluations & goals.
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Date: 2003-08-25 01:03 pm (UTC)If anything you could stand to learn to step back from the shinies and evaluate how other people are reacting & feeling, take those factors into consideration. You're never deliberately mean or thoughtless, all your friends know this, but putting a little more thought into how your words & actions affect others would not be undue. IMHO. Any personal improvement you should choose to embark upon should be due to your own evaluations & goals.
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