Well, that was a suprise...

[wolfwings]

vege_chan came home this evening. To pick up her stuff, and pack what she couldn't fit in the first trip to pick up tommorow.

As in, she's moving out. She's gone, vamoose.

And I'm all of shocked, happy, annoyed, and likely a half-dozen other emotions.

I think this is a good thing... but now I'm stuck holding the proverbial bill, and I don't know if I can afford it. =-.-=

Comments

[delphi-of-clf.livejournal.com]

Erm...no, that could be a very bad thing. What's the bill situation like? Is her name on any of the contracts, etc? If she's on the lease/deposit/etc, and is leaving, then she's still responsible for expenses, payments, etc. I guess you could file charges, but what's her reasons for leaving like this?

I don't know the situation, so I don't know if this is something that should be concerned about or not o.o;;

[manawolf.livejournal.com]

..... She didn't give you any warning?!

Jeesus, Sardonicus and I gave E. warning, and she turned out to need 3 months to get things financially together!

Of all the... what the... do you know where she's going? Geez... Gah!

[dustmeat.livejournal.com]

where will she go?

Hrmm?

[lionman.livejournal.com]

It sounds to me like there's more of a story here that isn't coming out. There was something long and drawn out that led up to this, isn't there?

[spittydragon.livejournal.com]

This doesnt really come as a shock to me, really... *shrug*

[tesstheredpony.livejournal.com]

Flamming like this is exactly why I refused for 2 years to get a LJ account. None of you have a right to criticize Her. Next time you all decide to fly off and famme someone get the facts first. These are the ones I know. She told Mark a week ago she had to move because he couldn't give her enough work to pay for it.. Wolf has had that room for months and was responsible for paying for it before V. moved in with him. Its his responsible for paying it or getting another room mate. She moved because she wasn't making enough to pay her half of the rent. When you only work one day in 3 weeks and your paycheck is for 70 odd dollars. You move. I think you all owe her an apology.

[vege-chan.livejournal.com]

It's really unkind of you to say that because Mark already knows that I will be paying him the rent that I owe. As you well know, I have been unable to pay rent for the last month and a half due to the fact that neither of us have had the job hours to make that sort of money!

Mark has never discouraged me from leaving. In fact, he has encouraged me to seek another place and a better job. I find it very immature/childish of you to say that you are covering for my bills when that isn't true. And, if I'm not mistaken, you don't have the money to pay for your stay there either let alone purchase food. You, unlike me, have family and friends willing to loan you the funds; I don't have that luxury and I am going to financially fuck myself over if I don't get another job. And yes, if you must know, I have found a new job that pays a whole hell of a lot better than this one did.

Now, I don't expect you to understand much about finances or anything because you have never had to deal with that sort of thing. But, I didn't really know that I was leaving till about a week ago. I told Mark on Tuesday and he's very happy for me. I don't see how you should find this an inconvenience due to the fact that you aren't my keeper. SO, for you to assume that you automatically have to cover for me is wrong.

Now, for the rest of you who have commented without truly understanding the entire story, you obviously have no faith or any understanding of what kind of person I am. Naturally, for those of you who are closer with Wolf would automatically side with him because that is just your natural defense mechanism against any conflict involving him.

Hate me or think as negatively as you want, but don't lash out at me without trying to understand both perspectives.

[spittydragon.livejournal.com]

I Dont think negatively of you in the least bit... I know that you have a tough time living in a house with all men, as well as not having any space to your own. Im positive that moving out is the best thing for you, its certainly not a shock that you did so. I would certainly if I were in the same predicament.

[vege-chan.livejournal.com]

Thank you, I appreciate your support in my decision.

Somehow, I'm not entirely surprised everyone misinterpreted me.

[wolfwings.livejournal.com]

Nowhere in there did I say VChan was screwing me over, or that she'd done anything wrong.

I was annoyed she'd given Mark a week's notice, but hadn't given me the same notice. I wasn't annoyed with her decision to move out, THAT wasn't unexpected, just her timing was.

The proverbial bill in question is actually a non-monetary one. In this case, it's actually greater freedom. I'd been concerned before, this is actually one less concern for me. It was meant more as a summary, like being walked out on from dinner, when you were planning on paying for the dinner regardless, if that makes any sense?

Believe it or not I support you too, hon.

[wolfwings.livejournal.com]

The only complaint I have, is that you told Mark, but didn't tell me the same day, or leave me a message or something. That's all. Now that the initial shock has long-since worn off, blessed good luck, hon.

Screened.

[wolfwings.livejournal.com]

As this wasn't meant to belittle or flame VChan, nor do I wish her ill since doing so is like wishing ill of the ocean that washes away a sandcastle you spent all day building.

Re: Screened.

[mira-fastfire.livejournal.com]

Understood! ^_^ And now I know that she really didn't leave you with the rent, so it's all okay. :)

Love you! *blows a kiss*

[wolfwings.livejournal.com]

Love you too. *nuzzles*

Screened.

[wolfwings.livejournal.com]

I censored the one comment that was outright attacking VChan. I also pointed out the misunderstanding, and most of the rest of the comments were friends of mine simply inquiring for more details, or agreeing that I should have had the same warning as my landlord and employer was given for VChan moving out. For being overly aggressive and pointlessly attacking everyone without reason in this thread, your comment has been quelled, Crimson Rose. If you'd like an LJ code, ask. I'll supply one.

Re: Screened.

[otana.livejournal.com]

Actually, that's a friend of vege_chan and she was standing up for her, not flaming her. It was a little aggressive and impulsive, but I'm pretty sure she meant no harm by it. She was merely frustrated by the negative comments left about vege_chan's decision and wanted to stand up for her.

Re: Somehow, I'm not entirely surprised everyone misinterpreted me.

[otana.livejournal.com]

Maybe it would be worth putting this in an entry of its own, Wolf, considering the amount of people who misread the original post and may not have come back to read the comments?

*hugs*

Re: Screened.

[otana.livejournal.com]

Aaaaaaaaaaand I just reread that and realized I completely missed the whole point of your comment. Heheh. *looks embarrassed*

Re: Screened.

[wolfwings.livejournal.com]

Along with the fact that my explanation for screening (not deleting) her comment was well-documented. So she could re-post it if she wanted, with an actual username attached, if she wanted to remove a little bile. =^.^= If not, much like the other 'heated' post, it gets left in the cold-box to freeze solid.

And in other news, beautiful... *scritches* ...heyas. Good luck tommorow, hon, though I hope you won't need it either.