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[livejournal.com profile] vege_chan came home this evening. To pick up her stuff, and pack what she couldn't fit in the first trip to pick up tommorow.

As in, she's moving out. She's gone, vamoose.

And I'm all of shocked, happy, annoyed, and likely a half-dozen other emotions.

I think this is a good thing... but now I'm stuck holding the proverbial bill, and I don't know if I can afford it. =-.-=

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Date: 2003-11-15 07:18 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] vege-chan.livejournal.com
It's really unkind of you to say that because Mark already knows that I will be paying him the rent that I owe. As you well know, I have been unable to pay rent for the last month and a half due to the fact that neither of us have had the job hours to make that sort of money!

Mark has never discouraged me from leaving. In fact, he has encouraged me to seek another place and a better job. I find it very immature/childish of you to say that you are covering for my bills when that isn't true. And, if I'm not mistaken, you don't have the money to pay for your stay there either let alone purchase food. You, unlike me, have family and friends willing to loan you the funds; I don't have that luxury and I am going to financially fuck myself over if I don't get another job. And yes, if you must know, I have found a new job that pays a whole hell of a lot better than this one did.

Now, I don't expect you to understand much about finances or anything because you have never had to deal with that sort of thing. But, I didn't really know that I was leaving till about a week ago. I told Mark on Tuesday and he's very happy for me. I don't see how you should find this an inconvenience due to the fact that you aren't my keeper. SO, for you to assume that you automatically have to cover for me is wrong.

Now, for the rest of you who have commented without truly understanding the entire story, you obviously have no faith or any understanding of what kind of person I am. Naturally, for those of you who are closer with Wolf would automatically side with him because that is just your natural defense mechanism against any conflict involving him.

Hate me or think as negatively as you want, but don't lash out at me without trying to understand both perspectives.

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Date: 2003-11-15 08:37 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] spittydragon.livejournal.com
I Dont think negatively of you in the least bit... I know that you have a tough time living in a house with all men, as well as not having any space to your own. Im positive that moving out is the best thing for you, its certainly not a shock that you did so. I would certainly if I were in the same predicament.

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Date: 2003-11-15 09:25 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] vege-chan.livejournal.com
Thank you, I appreciate your support in my decision.

Believe it or not I support you too, hon.

Date: 2003-11-15 11:39 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] wolfwings.livejournal.com
The only complaint I have, is that you told Mark, but didn't tell me the same day, or leave me a message or something. That's all. Now that the initial shock has long-since worn off, blessed good luck, hon.

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