And once again...

[wolfwings]

...I fnid myself on both sides of a proverbial fence.

A position I seem to keep finding myself in. Friends with both sides of a problem, and trying to be there in a way to give support to the collapsed of the two sides...

Sometimes, things need to fall, before they can be rebuilt. But sometimes... they just need to be proped up, until they can support themselves again.

Comments

[mira-fastfire.livejournal.com]

euwgh. I know situations like that....no fun at all!

*sends snuggles* Love youuuu!

Love you too!!!

[wolfwings.livejournal.com]

And yeah... it's a situation I've grown almost... accustomed to being in, because I refuse to give up a friendship just because someone else has, no matter how good their reason, I always give the 'other side' a chance to speak, and judge things either from first-hand information, or not at all.

So yeah... it tends to land me in odd situations. =^.^=

[devidarkwolf.livejournal.com]

Oh, Wolfy, I hope I wasn't a part of that problem! I'll call you tomorrows, 'kay? After my first day of work. Tee hee.

Nice icon. I have SHITE in that game. I have to subscribe to be able to wear anything. Sheesh.

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Oh, no, you weren't a part of the problem at all, sweety!

[wolfwings.livejournal.com]

And danke. I never got very far before my subscription ran out, and I couldn't afford to renew it. Plan to get back into it (though most likely Puzzle Piraten, not Puzzle Pirates) once I get a couple paychecks under my belt. Lime green and dark brown trousers will be mine! =^.^=

[manawolf.livejournal.com]

Hm. For once, I cannot be in that position, and I find it bewildering.

Actually, believe it or not...

[wolfwings.livejournal.com]

...I'm just as bewildered how I end up here every time I do. =-.-=

It's not a fun path to end up on, but my 'helpful' nature lands me here, so I gave up complaining about ending up here. It's my own choices that do it, time and again, and those choices seem to be an integral part of who I am.

At least I know it's my own choice to be here most of the time, and learned not to bitch about it anymore, unlike a certain feline you just posted about. *headshakes* Still mildly floored at that snippet. I thought they'd booted eir out weeks ago, or had been planning on such.

Re: Actually, believe it or not...

[manawolf.livejournal.com]

*shrugs* It's part of being a Libra, methinks. (And you were SUPPOSED to be born a Libra, so there!) I've always been wholly satisfied with my ability to be the peacemaker, the comforter. I don't like confrontation, I don't like taking sides. I want to help everyone and be everyone's friend, even if two friends are at odds. Even if I am upset by something, I can often put my emotions aside.

So it's... confusing to me when my emotions actually get in the way of that. I'm not used to it, and I'm having a hell of a time figuring it out.

Hrm... you actually have a point there.

[wolfwings.livejournal.com]

I wish I could help, but you're right... neither of us usually have our emotions get in the way of our judgement, or our desire to help those around us. =-.-=

[darkserapha.livejournal.com]

I am very sorry to hear that, even though I guess I can understand why you would feel that way. Still.. it makes me very sad.

[manawolf.livejournal.com]

You don't have to be. You have the power to make amends. All you have to do is try.

As I've said.

[wolfwings.livejournal.com]

And hopefully, she'll do. =^.^=